Hi Reader,

Sri Lanka is one of those destinations where things are culturally different from what we expect back home.

Shams grew up in Sri Lanka, so before my first visit, she explained some of the cultural differences, which can be a little difficult to understand until you actually visit.

But with a few considerations to make, which isn’t complicated, you’ll feel comfortable and confident as you travel around.

So instead of thinking of this as a list of strict rules, quite the opposite, think of it more as a few cultural things that are useful to be aware of before you go.

Temples and religious places

One of the most important places where culture really matters is when visiting a temple.

Shams explained to me early on that when visiting a temple, you must dress modestly, which means:

• Shoulders covered
• Knees covered
• Shoes removed before entering

A T-shirt and longer shorts will do to cover the shoulders and knees, or a dress that covers the shoulders and knees will be sufficient, alternatively a scarf will come in handy.

If you don’t come prepared, don’t worry, the temple will hand out scarves of sarrongs to cover up.

Once you visit your first temple, it will feel normal, and you’ll see everyone else follows the same pattern.

Pro tip: walking around in bare feet can be uncomfortable, especially walking across the hot sand or stone. Take socks with you to wear around the temple, as this will help.

Everyday behaviour and PDA

Outside of temples, day-to-day life is far more relaxed, but still very conservative.

One thing Shams made very clear from the onset was the public display of affection. Things like kissing or overly affectionate behaviour in public are not very common in Sri Lanka.

It’s not about rules or even being judged; it’s just culturally not done in Sri Lanka. Even just holding hands is something I have never seen in Sri Lanka.

And while we don’t show any PDA in general, we are just more respectful in Sri Lanka as a couple.

Female travellers and safety

For independent female travellers, especially solo female travellers, going out at night alone isn’t common. Shams has warned me about getting unwanted attention as a female out at night, and the risk posed on females safety.

If you must go out in the evening, arrange to go with a group and never travel out at night alone.

While there is no dress code in Sri Lanka, the first thing you’ll notice is that the locals wear modest clothing. Dress modestly outside of beach or resort areas, not because you have to, but because it will prevent unwanted attention, and it naturally aligns more with the local norms.

And in general, Sri Lanka is a very safe and welcoming country; it’s more about feeling comfortable in the environment than worrying about strict expectations.

Photography etiquette

Photography may not be at the top of everyone’s list of cultural considerations, but it’s always a good idea to be mindful when taking photos of people, especially in rural areas or temples.

And watch out for the stilt fisherman, they’ll expect payment for any pictures you take of them.

If you’re ever unsure, just ask.

We found that just smiling and simple gestures are enough.

Final thought

Sri Lanka is a very welcoming country, and well worth visiting.

But these cultural differences don’t need to be barriers to overcome; they’re just part of what makes travelling to Sri Lanka feel different in a good way.

Over to you

If you’re planning a trip to Sri Lanka, what’s the part you’re most unsure about right now?

And if you’ve already been, was there anything that surprised you culturally when you arrived?

Just hit reply, we’d love to hear from you.

Happy travelling

Bev & Shams

Email: bev@bevandshams.com

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